12-31-2013, 08:35 AM
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To be honest you're probably right man and that sounds so tough for you 
What I will say though is the way I define family isn't by who's bloodline we posses, in actual fact we are related to every person on the planet, I define family as the people I see as family people like my friends who even when I'm most stupid they still support me, like a family should
What I'm saying is family in my mind are the people you surround yourself with. Honestly I trust these guys more.
And anyways I am afraid to say that the 'family' was the only thing I gave up on. Especially after my grandmother told me "how can [me] you say such things your so in social able and deviod I anything.
I think what I said before I was made to go to these people the other day sums it up well: I would rather be with the people who care not people who pretend to when my dad is looking.
(Also don't thing I hate the whole concept of the original definition of family, I love my mum and dispite our differences my dad. And my mums family make up more than enough for my dads side. Just a shame I can't see them more than once a year
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However, what I have decided is a compromise
Until I'm 17-18 I'm not going to see them
However when I reach This age I will go to these "family" gathering and try and change them.
If they act the same way, I get in the car and go home if not then I class them as my sort of family.

What I will say though is the way I define family isn't by who's bloodline we posses, in actual fact we are related to every person on the planet, I define family as the people I see as family people like my friends who even when I'm most stupid they still support me, like a family should
What I'm saying is family in my mind are the people you surround yourself with. Honestly I trust these guys more.
And anyways I am afraid to say that the 'family' was the only thing I gave up on. Especially after my grandmother told me "how can [me] you say such things your so in social able and deviod I anything.
I think what I said before I was made to go to these people the other day sums it up well: I would rather be with the people who care not people who pretend to when my dad is looking.
(Also don't thing I hate the whole concept of the original definition of family, I love my mum and dispite our differences my dad. And my mums family make up more than enough for my dads side. Just a shame I can't see them more than once a year

However, what I have decided is a compromise
Until I'm 17-18 I'm not going to see them
However when I reach This age I will go to these "family" gathering and try and change them.
If they act the same way, I get in the car and go home if not then I class them as my sort of family.
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