Pedophilia..

[Clementio]

Listen up, bud.
I know what you mean and what you want (no bad intentions) but it just doesn't really fit, does it?
If you feel like it's meant to be and she feels the same i don't know, however if you have no true feelings, leave her alone.
Some people might think you're a pedophile even if you're not but seriously, try to stay away from it.
Look for someone your age or younger but atleast a bit more 'mature'.
As a 14 year old guy i would NEVER date with a 21 year old woman and it would look kinda strange, wouldn't it?
On the other side and in my honest opinion however, you are NOT a pedophile

If i was 14 and a girl 21 ask me for ... i would ... her for sure xDDD