Racism - Dynamode and I

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There's

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hundreds

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of words that can be used as racist words. "Cotton picking" can be classed as racist, but it depends on the context. I think that it is a similar situation here.
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There is no Point in trying to tell you that it's still racist and when you think it COULD be racist you shouldn't say it AT ALL.
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Using the word "Black" can be racist, should I not use that at all? Using the word "Yellow" can be racist, should I not use that at all? Using the word "White" can be racist, should I not use that at all? Again, it all depends on the context of what you're using it in.

"People often call each other "***" while greeting which is not used in a racist way. I honestly think there are multiple meanings to this word and we were not using it in a derogative manner purposely." I've seen many people on the server use this to greet each other and they have no intentions of racism, I've seen people say it in front of admin's, because they haven't taken it in a racist way, but a greeting kind of way. 

You see people calling each other "Idiots", "Retards" and many more which are derogative, but that is not classed as important? They can get away with it scott free? 
Why is that? 

I'd also like to mention this; 
"The word itself is linked to a racist intent. The word itself is not Racist. The intent if much more important."
"The variant "***" is sometimes used among African Americans in a non-derogatory way."


It all seems to be up to opinion. What makes it not racist for a darker skinned person to say "***?" or "***"? 
Because its not taken in the context of racism.