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11-25-2015, 12:45 PM
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I went through the same thing bud. Best advice they gave me was a saying we have in Spain; "Let it go. If it's yours, it will come back, if it doesn't, then it never was".
My ex had me going around for roughly 2 years even though we were only really together for 2 months. She told me she loved me, we went out and then her ex turned up, so she left me. Things didn't go well, she wanted to get back together, but right before getting back she ditched me again for him. Then she came back, and like before right before getting back she ditched me again for him. Now it has failed miserably for the 4th time with him and she keeps saying how she was truly happy with me and that she wants back.
People have mixed emotions, it is possible to love more than one person. Sometimes what we truly like about a person is the idea of them, but we don't truly love them for they are not as perfect as they are in our minds.
As said, my advice is to Let it go. If you are still technically together and he goes to sleep at his ex's house then he's really stabbing your heart with that one, don't allow anyone to hurt you like that. You are worth so much more brother.
My ex had me going around for roughly 2 years even though we were only really together for 2 months. She told me she loved me, we went out and then her ex turned up, so she left me. Things didn't go well, she wanted to get back together, but right before getting back she ditched me again for him. Then she came back, and like before right before getting back she ditched me again for him. Now it has failed miserably for the 4th time with him and she keeps saying how she was truly happy with me and that she wants back.
People have mixed emotions, it is possible to love more than one person. Sometimes what we truly like about a person is the idea of them, but we don't truly love them for they are not as perfect as they are in our minds.
As said, my advice is to Let it go. If you are still technically together and he goes to sleep at his ex's house then he's really stabbing your heart with that one, don't allow anyone to hurt you like that. You are worth so much more brother.
Live a good life. If there's a god and he's just, he will not care of how devout you are, he will accept you for the virtues you have based your life upon. If there's no god, then you will have gone, but you will have lived a noble life which will stay in the memories of those that you love.